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Book Review | How to Be an American Housewife

Title: How to Be an American Housewife

Author: Margaret Dilloway

About the Book:

A lively and surprising novel about a Japanese woman with a closely guarded secret, the American daughter who strives to live up to her mother’s standards, and the rejuvenating power of forgiveness.

How to Be an American Housewife is a novel about mothers and daughters, and the pull of tradition. It tells the story of Shoko, a Japanese woman who married an American GI, and her grown daughter, Sue, a divorced mother whose life as an American housewife hasn’t been what she’d expected. When illness prevents Shoko from traveling to Japan, she asks Sue to go in her place. The trip reveals family secrets that change their lives in dramatic and unforeseen ways. Offering an entertaining glimpse into American and Japanese family lives and their potent aspirations, this is a warm and engaging novel full of unexpected insight.

My Review:

Assimilating to a new culture is always a trial, but it is one Shoko thinks she is prepared for when she leaves her difficult life and heartbreak in Japan to marry an American GI.  Little did she know that the pull of her home country and traditions will affect the rest of her life, as well as those of her daughter Sue and granddaughter Helena.

When Shoko realizes that she is very ill and may soon die, she wishes to reconcile with her brother, who is still in Japan and whom she has not seen in fifty years.  Pain from the past haunts her, and she wants to reunite with him, but age and illness prevent her from making the journey.  She asks her daughter Sue to go in her stead. Sue and her mother have never had a close relationship.  Sue has always misinterpreted her mother’s traditional Japanese mannerisms to be cold, and Sue herself is concentrating on raising her own preteen daughter.

How to Be an American Housewife tells the story of these three women, their family, and their traditions. It is interspersed with excerpts from a fictional guide on how Japanese women should act once they have married an American, based on a real book of that type that the author’s mother received as a gift from her father.  The story is touching and fluid, with well-developed characters.  The author is insightful and helps the reader to truly understand and respect the characters and their decisions.

*I received a copy of this book to review but I was not financially compensated in any way. The opinions expressed are my own and are based on my observations while reading this novel.*